Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Blog Party Contest! Day 2

Can I just say that Puppy, little devil that he is in all his cuteness, appears to enjoy seeing me clean up his piddly widdlies. No sooner have I wiped up one puddle and he's back in the kitchen slurping from the water bowl. Stinker. (I'd post another picture, but Blogger's spazzing out on me.)

OK, quick contest recap. For the month of February I'll be posting every day. And if you comment (one entry per day), you get entered into the drawing for an Amazon gift card in the amount equalling the number of new followers that join during February (guaranteed to be at least $50). So spread the word!

Now to today's post, which is brought us by the letters C-H-R-I-S-T-I-N-E

Christine Danek asked: How do you deal with the topic of patience and writing?

Great question, Christine, and one I have quite a bit to speak about.

By now you've all heard that publishing is a slow business. Believe it. If you're simply writing for the joy of putting pen to paper, yay you! Patience is not a virtue you need. But (and it's a big butt), if you have dreams of publication, patience is about the only thing you do need. That and persistence.

First off, writing a novel is hard. Really hard. That's a lot of words. Patience plays a big part here. As much as the dream of publication is whispering sweet nothings in your ear, you must press on. You must finish the manuscript before you even consider testing those query waters. For reals, people. Finish that draft! Don't let the sharks get you!

But wait! What's that you say? You finished? Hooray! A beautiful 500-page first draft is in your hot little hands. Your mind is screaming, "Send! Send! Send!" And somewhere in the blogosphere I'm yelling back. "Nooooooo." Step away from the email. Hands off the agent list. It's not ready yet. You're not ready yet. Now you need patience more than ever. You need it to help you find all the problems within that honking draft. (Or, if you're a sparse writer, you need the patience to fill in the details). Revision, baby! Get to it.

Now you've done it. You polished, you shined, you sent it around the world for critique. Your baby manuscript is all grown up and ready to venture into the big, bad world. Patience, grasshopper. It's time for research. Now you must scour the internet for information on agents who like what you write. You hunt down interviews with agents whose personalities seem compatible. You pseudo-stalk until you have an idea of who might be a good fit. You make a list. And then, with trembling fingers, you send off your (also critiqued) query letter. And guess what you do next.

You wait. And wait. And wait. Meanwhile, you write another novel.

Patience.

It's not something that comes easily to me. I'm a hurry-up-and-get-on-with-it kind of gal. But the quest for publication has taught me there's no hurrying this writing thing. But that's okay because you love it. Right? You have to love it. I'm not kidding. Your love of writing needs to be stronger than your desire to be published. A million times stronger. You have to do it for the love.

Ultimately, patience is key. It takes time to develop your craft. It takes time to write the novel you are meant to write. It all takes time. And patience.

Thanks for the great question, Christine. I look forward to reading the comments (and tallying up your entries to the contest). The accountant in me is drooling at the sight of the Excel spreadsheet I've prepared.

19 thoughts:

Emma Michaels said...

I agree! I am on the very last steps of that cycle. The wait while writing another novel... and another... Wonderful post and contest idea!

Sincerely,
Emma
SincerelyEmmaM@yahoo.com

Jon Paul said...

Anissa, I think you are spot on. The number of authors that I've read about who weren't published until their third, fourth, or fifth MS is long.

Reportedly, Lisa McCann ("Wake", "Fade") received 69 rejections on her first MS; "Wake" was her first MS. If she hadn't loved to write, she wouldn't be published now.

Great post! Looking forward to more!

Jon Paul said...

Wups, sorry--*"Wake" was her THIRD MS.

Christine Danek said...

Thank you for answering my question. I really needed this. I am a get to it gal and move on but still I love to write. So your info is patting me on the head saying keep going and be -----Patient :)
Thanks

Karen said...

Sending your ms off on submission is like sending your firstborn off to kindergarten without knowing when (or if) the school will send them home.

Natalie said...

I'm pretty sure patience is more important than writing ability in this business. Every single step involves WAITING for what feels like forever.

Julie, The Wife said...

Is this an intervention? Because I am sitting on 40K toward my novel, 60K of columns I wrote a few years ago waiting to be spun into a book, another 30K started on a new collection, and absolutely NO patience whatsoever. A.D.D. and impatient does not get the book written. Or re-written. Sigh. Okay people. I hear you.
Thanks Anissa!

Julie Dao said...

I really loved this post. My favorite part: "But the quest for publication has taught me there's no hurrying this writing thing. But that's okay because you love it." So, so true... we are taught to expect immediate rewards for our hard work but reality is that it doesn't always work that way. Writing is a long tough road with a lot of detours and construction. Thank you for the reminder!

Natalie Murphy said...

This was a great post!

Patience is a must in this business. Everything about it takes time.

Kristi said...

Good luck with the puppy! I remember those days! They are definitely cute for a reason!

L.T. Elliot said...

I'm really glad you wrote this post. I'm in the patient mode right now and I'm actually doing pretty well with it. The part I'm struggling with is that everyone else wants me to hurry up and I know I'm not ready. How do you deal with that one?

Shelli said...

ive never been very good at being patient

Erica said...

Great post! Patience is highly important during this ride! I'm only on draft 2 so I have a ways to go! Been researching the biz for a couple years so I'll be ready when it's time :o)

Oh and my doggie was a puppy not that long ago - and I feel your pain. That's why God made them so cute, so you won't want to kill them when they leave you, "presents" everywhere! Not sure if it's your first, but it gets better!!

Thanks for sharing your insight and Christine - what a great question :o)

Mystery Robin said...

I'm really, really not good at the patience part of it. ;)

And shame on Puppy!

Bethany Mattingly said...

I agree, I'm in that rewriting/revision phase. It's taking a lot of my patience right now. Thanks for visiting my blog :)

Heidi Willis said...

Ooh! ooh! I have a puppy too!! What great timing to find you and your beautiful blog!! We can compare notes!! (and pictures... do you have pictures?? I must go back to your blog and peruse!)

You are really TOO FUNNY about the writing process!! And SOOOO true! I love that you are yelling somewhere out in the blogosphere!

It doesn't get easier, either. I want this next book to write itself NOW. :(

Lisa and Laura said...

We couldn't agree more. Publishing is the sloooooooowest! But it definitely pays to be patient. I guess there's always something we could be doing...um, writing another book to polish, right?

Dangerous With a Pen said...

Excellent... I teach first grade... I have patience to beat the band. (That's because every second of my day is already busy, I have no time to dwell on anything, lol).

Now I just need to finish the first draft of my WIP... to get to the rewrites... and the reads... and the edits... and revisions... and queries... oh my. :)

Anissa said...

Emma - Thanks for chiming in. The waiting is hard, but we'll get there. :)

Jon Paul - I love the Wake series. And you're right. I hear all the time how many manuscripts published authors have "under the bed."

Christine - Than you! It was a great topic.

Karen - That's a hilarious analogy!

Natalie - I couldn't agree more. Craft can be learned. Raw talent is great and all, but patience is the key. At least in my opinion.

Julie - Yes, this is an intervention. Get to work!

Julie Dao - Good to see you!

Natalie Murphy - Yes!

Kristi - Oh, you are so right. He's too cute to get mad at. LOL!

L.T. - That's a good one too. The pressure from others. Honestly, only you know when you're ready. Only you can decide if you've polished enough. Your CPs don't know the heart of the story. They can't feel it beating inside them. Only you. But make sure it truly is that you think the manuscript isn't ready. Make sure fear isn't holding you back. :)

Shelli - Yeah, me neither.

Erica - Thanks for stopping by!

Robin - I know, sweetie. I know.

Bethany - Good to see you here. I love new visitors!

Heidi - I'm so glad you found me too! Now we can share! :)

LiLa - I have no doubt you gals are all over it!

Dangerous - You'll get there. Never fear. Just keep plugging away, one step at a time. There's no rush. :)